I feel good and you are correct that it isn't easy sometimes.
Thanks dwinter82,
The agreement my W and I made was to talk with the kids right before she/they moved out. Not sure what benefit there is to telling them ahead of time but I am open to opinions and advice.
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3 M: 5/28/05 Bomb: 8/22/09 EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09 W L: 10/21/09 M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10