I can relate to this. My 'W' had gotten her OM a job where she works. When I said I was simply not comfortable with that and it would effect our ability to R, guess who got fired?
They still "have to have" contact because in their dillusional euphoria they went in on a house together that they had planned to move to and when the D went through, I did everything in my power to bar that as it would have serious impact on my ability to see my kids, to say anything of how degraded their quality of life would be there.
So far, I'm coming along that that is the only thing they discuss, other than when he gets drunk and stupid, but, that is her problem to handle. She doesn't have my complete trust yet, but I see how he irritates her. Luckily, she knows she was never truly "in love" with him. The whole while she always said she loved me everytime I'd ask her if she loves him.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
