Sad To Be Back 4 Years After The Bust

[jon2911]

BTM, you're the MAN! This is sounding good.

I'm not sure the "don't pursue" completely applies to you, especially since you've been through all this before. I'm finding things have been much better with my W when I stopped worrying, starting acting freakin' confident, tried some crazy things and watched the results. Those are the biggest DB principles IMO depending on the sitch. You went out on a limb, told her about the dream, and went for the boobs. It worked! According to her, this was all caused by that sexual incident. So it's encouraging that she was comfortable.

Now just let yourself feel good instead of second-guessing. And try some other out-of-character things and watch her reaction. Have fun with it.