Wow--she's moving on toward full-tilt crazy. maybe even borderline personality disorder-ish. she's obviously really enmeshed with you. The focus on sexual stuff is interesting; weird as h*ll, but interesting. Asking to compare her to Miss Somebody in the sack, seriously...totally bizarre.

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I don't remember what being in bed with STBXMRSSP is like. I can't conjure up a sense memory of it at all. I know we did it -- we have 2 kids, I was there! But try as I might I couldn't produce even an image of a memory of a sensation. It was really quite disheartening in its way. I can't remember what her hands felt like -- I know I loved touching them, the way they felt -- but I don't know why I know that -- know what I mean?

is protective. It'll come back to you when it isn't so excruciating to remember it. it's dissociative. and that's ok.

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Nothing like a mid-50s mother of 2 doing that woojie-woojie grindy-grindy dance you see with the kids on MTV spring break.
is just creepy; speaking as a mid-50's mother and all. Hey, not that we don't have our own brand of mojo, but far classier than woojie-grindy.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012