Mixed Signals or is this Limbo Land

[Kemper]

Good attitude to focus on yourself and your children and not focus on what your W is doing. Just remember that your W can't "miss" you when you are always around. I know you have to be around for kid exchanges but I think that should be the only time you are around.

Remember, people want what they don't/can't have. If you are always around and there then why would she want anything more when she can still have "her" life outside of you?

Stay strong and continue moving foward. If your W decides that she wants to work on the R/M then you have to make a decision on what that looks like and if you even want it to happen. If she doesn't then that is her choice and you will be in a much better place if you continue to move foward.

I know all of this is easier said than done but it is the thing that has to happen now.