We are not divorced yet but my daughter has told my wife that she wants to stay with me and we are going to do an uncontested divorce where my wife will have standardized visitation. In the event that I move out of state, my daughter will visit her for 6 weeks in the summer and during holiday seasons(rotating of course)whereas there is ample adjustment time for my daughter(for example, if she is out of school for 3 days, it wouldn't make much sense to put her on a plane to visit her mom but if she is out for a week or 2, then there is ample adjustment time for her to travel, spend some quality time with her mom and return to her home and adjust before school started again.
As we are both in the military, there isn't much choice regarding my moving out of state. She is in the military so she knows this is going to happen one way or the other.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
