I won't initiate any R talk, but god knows i really would like to know where i stand presently. I have to assume i'm in a "holding pattern" so to speak. I'll continue to GAL and be somewhat unpredictable as you advised. But when , if at all ,do i discuss our situation . What do i do if she say's she's moving out for space? At the airport when i picked her up last nite she really hugged me and kissed me a few times, more than a peck on the cheek. Very tired last nite and she fell asleep, got up early and is unpacking suitcases and cleaning the house and such. I am observing without acting needy. I'm not hugging or trying to kiss etc. But i'd love some loving, even of the snuggling kind.