I have been checked out for a bit from the site, but reading your posts lately, you are doing exceptionally well for yourself! Keep it up!
You sound fantastic for where you are at. I am proud to see you GAL, and connecting with old friends, etc.
As far as letting StBXH help with car, you already know you need to stop that, as you stated, but you won't get 2x4 from me. Don't beat yourself up for it, just acknowledging it, and knowing you want it to change is a great start on making that change.
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I've always been a kind of believer in fate- maybe we're meant to help each other through this.
I used to not believe in fate, but boy, there are so many things like you have posted that happen, I noticed in my own sitch and posted to you about watching out for them as they happen. I am seriously starting to wonder about fate these days...
Look at all the positives that you have in the past few days! Boy, I am really happy to read your latest posts! I hope your IC goes well today, let us know when you can how things go!
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."