BJ! Happy to see you man! I'll swing by your thread and check in on you in a bit.

As for my d8 BD plans, I already am planning a b-day party this weekend for d8 with Family in my area, and d8 is really looking forward to it.

I agree with you on your post, and am really leaning towards it, and just not towing to StBXW at all. I am going to send email that I will pickup d8 after party, and just end it at that. She can then decide how she will respond.

Got to check in on you now..

M: 41
STBXW: 41
D: 9
Bomb: 4/26/09

On board the D train now..

"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."