We are separated right now. Have been for months. In fact, I filed for divorce back in July but stopped it when she said she didn't want to do it. No, there's no remorse, and one of her biggest flaws is an inability to accept responsibility for her own actions. She remains convinced that she was a great wife to a husband who never loved her, yet someone doesn't want to divorce me.
As for dating, who wants to date a man who could potentially leave them if his wife returns. That's one reason why I wanted to have this discussion, I need to be able to move on with my life.