Eventually you will get to a point where you say I'm in a bad place today and it has nothing to do with my spouse. That thought will be followed by something along the lines of this isn't about her/him anymore, its about me. Its about how can I take this negative and turn it into a positive. How can I continue to grow from this experience? You can't fake this. You can GAL all you want but eventually you will have to face your demons one on one.
Today I am thankful for my WAS. Her actions allowed me to enter into the greatest growth period of my life.
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