di-I'm not sure I am ready to move on but I think I am ready accept whatever life brings my way.

glam-I hope you and your kids are doing well. I kind of gave up trying to "pull" my H home a while ago. Things seemed like they were good between us as long as I accepted his terms. I knew that wasn't working for me so I gave him the deadline not knowing what he would do. He agreed to move back. I was happy that we were "moving forward" but aprehensive because I knew there was something missing. Now I know what that thing was, my H's committment...he lost that a long time ago and I guess he still hasn't found it. frown Anyway, I agree with you, life is too short and precious. I hope you are finding happiness in your life. You deserve it!