It's frustrating that she will not come out of that and recognize that she engaged in certain behaviors that made her a less than stellar wife. I think that her own unwillingness to accept her role in this is the biggest obstacle to overcoming things. She knows she [censored] up, but can't face dealing with it, so it's still my fault.
She doesn't sound remorseful at all! But here's a q- why not file for separation if you aren't sure about D? Then you can still date.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
