if things were good in your M and this happened...what would your reaction be?
just curious. I could tell you so many stories of people like you in their sitch that would make you cringe. if you think he's disgusting now because he told you he changed his flight (and yes I know it's closer to OW, but that doesn't mean anything, you are only speculating that he could try to do something) then your going to have some real issues if or when he does something really messed up.
the more you focus on his improper behavior, the less you will be focused on his good behavior. which will translate into you not focusing on yourself and becoming the best, fun, happy you, which will translate into H becoming more miserable and doing more stupid things because he feels stuck and doesn't think the M will ever get any better...which means YOU'll be hurt even more!
don't let this happen okay? I always hear about people saying be a ducks back. this is what you have to do, his actions/comments need to roll off your back. you need to let them go. and you need to let HIM go. in order for him to come back, you need to let go, and focus on you.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
