Don't know where to post this.

[loveherstill]

Found out last night that she had OM baby sit S2 and S4 while she went to the pto meeting. I highly disapprove and told her that if she leaves them with him again I will file a restraining order against him for the children. She yelled about control and threatened to file for D immediately if I were to file restraining order. She said threats will not work on her. I reminded her that OM has a previous restraining order on his record for busting his sister's nose and told her that her threat did not bother me as I would do whatever it takes to protect my children period. I told her that in our state and her being their mother that I could not keep her from taking them to his house as long as she is with them, but the minute she leaves them with OM it is a whole new ballgame.

Other than that pizza night went really well. I helped S2 build his pizza (sauce every where and he ate the pineapple as soon as I put it on the crust). When pizza was done W asked if I wanted her to make me a plate. I said thank you but I can get it. She was wearing the necklace that I made for her for christmas (sterling silver and amathysts).

I played and wrestled with the two younger boys and talked with S12. W folded some laundry, checked her facebook and replied to a few texts.

We put the boys to bed and she gave me a hug (she approached me), gave me some shaving cream she bought for me, gave me my mail, and I left.

She did say ILYBNILWY and that we did not have much in common anymore. She said that my praying at the dinner table made her uncomfortable. She has never been a believer and leans more towards the pagan side.

All this being said, she still wants to go out Saturday. We will probably all go out as a family so that I can focus on the kids.

Any input would be helpful. Thanks.