Kemper, I just got my self up to speed on our sitch...are sitch's are very similar, except I am likley 3-4 months ahead of you, which is not a good thing. Are paths have crossed via Missherlove.

How are you holding up? I have a ton of questions. Are you two still in the same house? What is your demeanor towards your W right now? What are your objectives....hope to reconcile or not? How are the kids?

The ring thing...ignore it. The OM issue...irrelevant (I have not reached this point but it is true). It sounds like you are starting the process in the right direction. Where do things stand right now?


Me41 W43
M9 T13
S8 D6
Bomb 1/4/08
EA Discovery 7/10/08
S 6/13/09
2nd EA/PA Discovery 7/15/09 (same guy)
D-Day 3/8/10