As my W said then, if she really wanted to continue the A, it wouldn't matter if they kept in contact for work, or not, or whatever. They'll find a way. Hated to admit it, but it's true.
I laid some boundaries even as the NC was not fully enforced. Facebook and email accounts were shared. Same with cell phones. Any and all communications were to be told to me.
What matters more is intent.
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.
