Tough to tell what goes on in the minds of those in affairs. My wife surprises me with contrite and/or caring comments every once and a while as well. Kind of lulls you into thinking maybe they are coming around. But then they do something to completely negate all of that.

You have to think that only a psychopath could have zero conscience when involved in an affair. I'm sure there are quite a few times when the enormity of it hits them. Then guilt takes over and they send you a nice text message. Maybe helps them feel better for a bit.

I'd just chalk it up as something nice for a change, but don't expect anything more.


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