I have to agree...after much consideration (LOL)that I might be a tad hard on myself. It is really sinking in that it does take two to work at a rel/mar and I have been on overdrive and my H... well... he didn't at all, then some, but he can't sustain it. It really is upsetting and unbelievable to me that two people can be in love with each other and not be able to have a decent relationship.
