Hello MB28, it was his idea to seperate. He asked me to leave and that he would pay for the deposit and necessary expenses for me to leave the house (with my two children). He said if I would dare to come home he wouldn't pay his half of the bills and I would loose the house anyways. I agreed at first but after a week of looking for an apartment for the sake of argument, I decided to come back home and told him to leave. I told him if he didn't pay it would not only affect my credit but his. So he agreed on paying half.
He says it's over but then says to seperate for 6 months. Not sure if he said 6 months because he finishes school in 6 months. We had been fighting a lot for some of the dumbest things imaginable. I don't cheat, go out with friends, spend money on clothes, nore go on expensive get aways. I pretty much just stay at home and focus on the kids and him.
He mentions things that happenend 6 months ago when we fight. Things like I didn't call Terminix when he told me too. That I was supppose to take care of everything in the house and he had to help around the house. He asked me to quit my job so that I could focus on teh kids and on the home. But I still pay half of everything becuase I have other forms of income. My last day was 12/14/09, and he moved out 1/2/10!
He was really wonderful at the beginning and even a few weeks ago. He's been distant and arguementative about everything. Not sure if it was just an excuse to seperate since now he has 15k in the bank from a student loan.
