Guess she is satisfied to love you from a distance. She's right....she's being selfish. That is what our society seems to be teaching people....to think of themselves and be selfish.

I know it must have been very painful to hear her say what she did, but maybe you can have some sort of closure now and move forward. She made her choice.....not a good one and not mature, but it's hers.

Hope you'll keep coming as long as you feel the need. You could be some help to Newcomers.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!