Well a 2 cents that when biggies like that no longer take on the complexion of coming on top of what happpened in he past - that's when you know the skeletons are well and truly buried. At least that's what some the the senior couples in Retro tell me smile. I kinda believe them.

You couldn't have handled that much better rocked smile.

P.S. you could think of Puppy when praying for OW's dog.

Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.