I understand how you feel. My spouse is very controlling too. When I went to see my brother for new years, he kicked me and my kids out of the house and told me I wasn't allowed to come home anymore. I tried staying at my brothers but I couldn't get an apartment since I'm not working (because he asked me to quit, but I still paid half of the bills and rent). So I came back home. He was furious! Yelled and screamed at me over the phone. When he saw me face to face, he was a lot calmer and acted like a victim. I was confussed, how can he act like the victim when he had kicked me and my two kids out of my own house?
