That is one thing that I am going to struggle with, not being around my boys 24/7. I will adjust, I just hope they will adjust well to the new circumstances that are being forced upon them.
I know that the majority of my W's friends have no idea she is having an A. She continues to lie to them just like she lied to me about it. However, I do know that when/if they find out they will distance themselves from her. The ones that do know (that aren't scum) already distanced themselves based on her actions.
My W is the type that rolls her friends. Meaning she is close with a core group for a certain period of time and then rolls on to the next group and contiunes that cycle over and over. It will interesting to see who all is left standing once the cat is out of the bag so to speak.
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3 M: 5/28/05 Bomb: 8/22/09 EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09 W L: 10/21/09 M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10