H suddenly moved out 10 days ago...I'm devastated

[flowmom]

Have you read DR or DB?

I've read DR, but haven't done the exercises in detail yet.

Don't rule out the chance of another woman being involved just because he denied it when you asked him. Some of your sitch sounds like pretty typical walk away stuff w/OW (other woman) involved.

I know.

What are your son's issues? You said behavioral issues, does he have a diagnosis?

We're still figuring out diagnoses. Probable giftedness, probably ADHD, sensory processing disorder (sensory seeking), visual-motor problems, possible visual and auditory processing problems, social and aggression issues. Doing well in some academic areas (grade 1) but not meeting expectations in reading/writing. I think he is doing pretty well, but that's because we put a ton of energy into making things work for him.