You are a catch, hell I'm thinking about switching teams.
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Look man, some really blunt honest talk right now.
You do this, and you can always blame her for the divorce. Always. And in your next relationship you can bail when things get fukcing hard too. For 9 years you went through hell. And for 9 years she supported you.
So she is going through her hell. And where is Bradley?
Unless you give this your all and then some?
You will regret, no matter how super hot Victoria Secret/pornstar your next lady is. You will regret your action somewhere in your heart. And a part of you will wonder about your dedication.
You take the long look down the road and will do as you are talking about doing. You will quit. You look at making it until tomorrow? That's how you walk across America, one step at a time, and you pull yourself along one mile at a time.
Was is correct, many think this will shock them out of it.
You confront her and she will act like a cornered animal. And you will force her hand into something you do not want.
You are talking a few months or a year or 2 out of...40 or 50?
A rebuilt relationship is better than anything you can imagine. It is better than it ever was, and the milk and honey days of wild sex.
The complaint of needing companionship... Toss one out or look up codependancy.
Yeah I know what its like to miss that. But GDammit, your going to let the chemicals in your body dictate what happens?
Bradley,
I believe this course of action you think will fix everything, is actually going to leave you with scars.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
