It's never intended to make you feel stupid, Tom. We are family here and we want to support you. I talk plain and for some people maybe too harsh, but my heart is in the right place. I just want you to try to "see" what you are doing that isn't working. When a person is hurting so badly....it is very difficult to think correctly. That's what we are here to help you with.

I've seen some guys on this board use a 2x4 like nobody's business and yet when it came to their own stitch.....they were as blind as the next person. That's how it is when we are too close to the situtation.

Take a deep breath and determine to have another go at doing your best. Don't give up....that's the main thing....don't give up.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!