You will be a wise man when it finally dawns on you that to get a woman back the woman needs to FEEL that you won't and don't want her back. You have failed to do that to this point..

Once your ex feels that she MAY have lost you for good is when the rubber hits the road.

Confident men are the ones that have the gnads to let HER wonder if you would NEVER want her back..

Until you learn how to make her work a little bit for your love, then you are going to keep getting the same results you have gotten all along.


Move on. Go back to dating other women. Let your ex do ALL of the initiating from now on. Don't do anything but be nice. No offers, no invitations. If she asks you to do something, start turning her down. Be nice but turn her down again and again.


Don't ask her what she wants. Don't ask her how she is.. Get off phone quickly.

Study how a Wayward spouse acts and copy their behavior. THAT is the key..Act like a WS... It is the WS's that have the BS's dancing to their tune. That means what they are doing is what works. Do what works.