Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

tgf, if we do go to C, I am at a point now that I can listen, validate and share feelings without back peddling. I will not take the bait and give her a reaction. I agree that is the correct method especially for the counseling session.

Still not 100% sure if I should agree to the counseling yet or wait? My W emailed me a few times today about bills and also asked me again if I had given more thought about meeting with C to talk. The emails were friendly but I kept things on the subject and did not talk about M. I only gave one or two sentence emails. I did set up a tentative C appointment for us next week but haven't made a final decision yet if it's the right time yet? Not sure if W is trying to be nice so that she gets her way (bills, go to C for closure, etc.) or she is being genuinely nice?