Praying for Light at the end of the Tunnel

[kjensen]

Hi TF,
(Still need to try and get together for lunch!)
I realize H is projecting, I'm just tired of it, I guess. I shouldn't take it personally.

I can limit contact to emails, but in a way with H's reaction to my perceived silence, I wonder if that isn't the right path for us.

I certainly don't initiate contact. I actually was avoiding all communication when possible, but H gets upset by that and I realize there are things I probably should have communicated (D12 doing after school basketball for 3 weeks) that I didn't.

I spoke to D14 this afternoon because she wasn't home when she should have been and she actually was getting a ride home with H and going grocery shopping with him. H got on the phone and said he owed me an apology-I asked for what..he said that D14 hadn't gotten a text he sent(I thought it was a missing email to me, but whatever) and so he shouldn't assume people aren't talking to him, that sometimes his messages don't go through, so he wanted to say he was sorry.

I guess he didn't believe what I said(never got the email), so when D14 had the same experience(but with a text) he believed her...

Ah the MLC spin...wish the spin cycle would end! Doing OK..definitely more detached all the time. Just a sad chapter in my life. Hope the next chapter is better!