W called. All business. She heard back from her pension administrator. After 15 years her pension plan is worth just $23,900. That's weird. Mine was worth $25,000 when my company was sold in 2006. And I'd been there just 10 years.

Anyway, she can pull money out in case of divorce by filing a QDRO. The difference in her pension and my IRA is $14,000 so that's $7,000 she owes me that I'll be able to get.

That plus the fact she should be able to refi her 401(k) loan and I'm feeling a lot better about getting out of this debt crunch she put me under.

Weird thing. She told D10 they likely won't move until she goes to high school. That's three years. That'll be interesting since she's barely getting by now.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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