If H brings up R or D talk, I will tell him that now is not a good time to talk about that and that my only focus is the kids now. I don't want to "act as if" he is going to say "no", but I'm sure that is what the answer will be. I have prepared myself for that answer and will respond with your suggestion, "I know you will figure out how to best handle the house" but also ask him how he proposes helping the kids through this difficult process of selling the house.
Have you gone to your MC session yet today? Just now that I'm thinking of you and hoping for the best.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10