Hopeless feelings

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Here is a rundown of my plan tonight, any advice would be helpful.

I'm just going to explain to H what the kids have been going through and what they have been saying, along with their fears of the house selling.

Then I'm going to propose that he move back in to try to give the kids a more secure stable environment while the house is for sale.

If H says no, then I will explain to him that he will have to come up with a plan to get the house ready to sell and how to keep it clean.

I really don't want my suggestion to come across as me trying to control the situation. In addition, let him know he has a choice, but that I will not be able to help much with keeping the house up for showing with work and school.