Thanks DW, laughter helps, I am where you are at in that I am going to be in wait an see mode for a long time. I can't dwell on M or my W. I need to focus on kids, job, Me. I basically have to forget about her, it will be a mindgame for sure. Thanks again for the support.
As far as your sitch goes I would not discuss her introducing OM to the kids. Lay low on that one, I have a feeling my sitch will catch up to yours in 6 months. More tonight.
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.