When I stopped her cake eating before I went dark except for the kids and I also began trying to make her jealous at the same time.
She sees jealousy as a threat now.
I have been complimenting her on her accomplishments at work and her skills as a mother as well.
Her OM is a loser but she thinks she may have already lost me. She has said she is afraid that if she comes back I may throw her out in a few months out of spite. She sees that as me having control.
Thank you for asking Dudess
Me 33 WAW 32 S12 S4 S2 M12 T14 Not wanting to ever give up.