I don't think I ever said the man was threatening to do anything. Perhaps I misread all the posts from today. I thought, or as I understood it, SadGirl's H was having money troubles and had to borrow some funds to have his day (night?) with the children. SadGirl said she didn't want her kids to miss out so she gave the money to her H. Maybe I strung this together all wrong (cause she said "technically" it was "his money") and understood it as if she did not provide the funds he would not spend time with the children. I thought that was a concern a while back - her H not spending time with the children.
I had thought (again, maybe I am thinking of another forum member, please pardon me if that is the case) a while back SadGirl was concerned with the lack of time spent with the children and was unsure how to handle things.
Maybe I am crazy and I not thinking of the correct person???
Guess I better read and find out! Maybe my mind is crazy today!
