Originally Posted By: robx
Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
...OMG! I can't imagine having to hear about a GF. My H complains finances. I know he does it because he knows I'll help. I need to work harder on that.


Work with the information you have here,
you know something specific to him,
make use of it.

Make yourself scarce.

When are you going to be ready to become the WAW in this situation? It's 2010, new year, brand new start, new ways of looking at & doing things, etc. J but anuary is still young, good time to start would be today.

Little secret,
your H still has an emotional connection to you,
he makes use of it to his advantage and to your disadvantage, you could turn this around.


I am trying to be a WAW, but I am seeing no signs of caring from him. It's frustrating!!