CityG SadG has said her H is being more than fair with respect to the financial support. Her problem is to find the correct wording when communicating with him so that he does not take offense and continues to live up to his parental obligations.
Note: Not once has he ever said to her that he will stop supporting the children or threatened to cut off financial support.
This all boils down to COMMUNICATION.
On a lighter note... we have City Girl and Sad Girl here... I'm waiting for Bad Girl and Mad Girl to make their appearances.