Don't know where to post this.

[loveherstill]

No I am not wanting to share her. I do not want her to continue contact. But as smartcookie showed in her threads that forcing her hand will backfire with a woman with these issues.

That is why I was thinking more of a reward for good behavior approach.

I don't mind making her mad, or jealous or anything else if it is done correctly.

So far I have made her jealous and had her come towards me, but if it is the wrong woman she runs away.

I have made her feel guilty, and I know that she feels very guilty now.

I have made her mad and had her run to his arms.

I am in this for the long term but she is very reactionary when she is cornered or feeling abandoned.