The adventure chronicles

[AFWAW]

If she wants to keep her family together, the only option for her is to attend counseling as she said she would. It's just one more lie that makes me believe it's time to move on. She's the one asking for the divorce, not me. I have to live as if this is the case. Part of that is taking care of my career. If an opportunity is available for me where I can take care of my daughter in a better capacity then I will take advantage of it. Me moving to AZ would put me in a position where I would be less likely to deploy. Additionally, I need to start thinking about life after the military and this move would place me in a major city where opportunities are more plentiful.

Bottom line, I have to plan as if this is happening and so far I haven't seen any movement(other than her lips)to rebuild trust or mend our relationship. I have lived up to my end of the bargain and when I held her feet to the fire regarding counseling(which she agreed too), she wants a divorce again.

In the past 3 days, she has talked with my daughter a magical 4 minutes. Actions do speak louder than words in this case. I don't want to speculate because it does no good but maybe she's got another OM in her life that's taking up her time. At this point, I don't care to waste anymore time figuring out what she is going to do or not do as she's obviously not interested in us.