I've been traveling for business for the past few days, without much contact with Mrs. T who, unfortunately, is at home with 3 sick children.
Been spending enjoying some GAL activities and spending some time thinking about what I want, and then...
...this morning I got a call from her saying "I've been talking to my C and if we are really 'working on things' then we should meet with him to discuss our goals and expectations and stuff. Are you available to meet with him next week"
I was surprised, and agreed.
This is the first time that she has a)told a C that she was "working on the m" and b)taken the initiative to do something proactive like this.
I'm not overly optimistic - I've ridden upward trends and been caught by the subsequent downward plunge of the roller coaster. I am, however, willing to give it another try. I am in a completely different place than I was last time we tried C (much more detached and ready to walk away), and so is she. This is also a better C. I've met with him myself and (now) have a lot of respect for him.
So who knows...no hurry either way.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.