Do I simply talk to them about how I'm feeling, and not give out details on her life with Dbag? How then do they help DB if she won't even talk to them?
If she won't even talk to them, they can't help you DB no matter what you tell them.
Also, you're inadvertently protecting her from having to own her decisions. By telling her family all the details, you're saving her from having to answer their questions and own the answers. She also has an excuse to not talk with them--"Norse has poisoned the well."
