Good points. But her family does ask for details...she has cut them off almost completely. Says they just "preach" to her and tell her how she's wrong,etc. She said I can talk to them, but she doesn't want me giving out details of her life, her new phone number, etc.
They're her family; she'll have to work out her relationships with them, especially if you two end up divorcing.
Originally Posted By: Norseman05
Do I simply talk to them about how I'm feeling, and not give out details on her life with Dbag? How then do they help DB if she won't even talk to them?
Her life with Dbag is her choice, and she'll live with the consequences. If you have to talk to her family, talk to them about you.
And you know how we say don't pursue, don't initiate R talk? The same goes for having people intervene on your behalf. All that will do is push her away from you AND from them.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
