From OM she gets validation of beauty. He tells her often she is beautiful, hot, sexy and treats her like the only woman in the room. All the stuff I did years ago.
He also is there as a shoulder to cry on without judging her or making her feel guilty.
He has only taken her out 2 times and they have been together 11 times. He has ignored her and left her setting at a friends house while he was drinking with his buddies until almost 10:00 pm. Then he told her he had to work that late and they would not be able to go out. He was home by 6 pm that day. He is interested in sex, she is interested in verbal validation and gives up sex as the price of keeping the validation going.
That being said her an om have fought some and I think that helps me.
I just need help in formulating the plan.
SC put her husband through hell for 12 months and his willingness to take it proved he was being less controlling for her. Mine is not rubbing my face in her A but she is not hiding it either.
Thanks for the help
Last edited by loveherstill; 01/13/1007:32 PM.
Me 33 WAW 32 S12 S4 S2 M12 T14 Not wanting to ever give up.
