This is what I would do if I had a derelict tribe of cheaters, losers, deadbeats, alcoholics and spawn from prior marriages involving me in their soap opera games:
1) Block them from texting or calling me or IM'ing me.
2) Only allow email communication with ex-H and have it only pertain to the baby.
3) If they fail to leave me the F alone, seek a restraining order.
4) If the opportunity arises, get out of Dodge City and start somewhere fresh.
And most importantly, I would not respond to any of their bait or shiite like you just did. It only invites more batshite crazy from them.
Love it! Very true! So much drama and I don't need it!
St and 25: Yes it bit me sort of...I feel good that I stood up for myself to both exh and MGF. It probably shouldn't have happened at all, but I know in my heart I didn't do anything and I wasn't going to just let them beat me up.
Today exh sent a text: Exh: Give baby a kiss. Not sure if I will make it today (for visit) Me: Ok. please let me know either way. Exh: Yep
His Yep is a tone. I can tell. I want him to let me know so I am not sitting here today for 3 hours while he decides if he has time to come or not.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
