Originally Posted By: JR09
As far as family members and friends, maybe they contacted her on their own and reported about my changes...I don't know.


You have no control over that. If it happens, it happens.

And it's not about "reporting back to her"; the casual, offhand comments are going to mean more anyway. "Hey, I ran into JR09 at the post office; he's really looking good!"

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."