Just my opinion, but you are beating a dead horse and will get no where by continually trying to talk about the past with him. You each have your own interpretation. If'n I put myself in his shoes, I really cant make any forward progress towards rekindling deep feelings for you if you keep bringing up our past failures.

The two of you need to focus more on the present and future. Remember, MWD's philosophy is solution oriented brief therapy. It does not dig up the past too much to solve problems going forward. You both need to be thinking of radical new ways to enhance your lives together now and into the future.

Do I need to quote my favorite therapist, John Wayne? Well missy, I sure do think'n it be good to bring that up bout now...

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Tomorrow is the most important thing in life. Comes into us at midnight very clean. It's perfect when it arrives and it puts itself in our hands. It hopes we've learned something from yesterday.

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Talk low, talk slow and don't say too much

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If you've got them by the balls, their hearts and minds will follow.

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Courage is being scared to death, but saddling up anyway