NC, I don't disagree. Heck, I lived in a situation for a long time, precisely for the kids.

No one is accusing TAL of not thinking about her kids. She's been doing that for a long time. I just feel like TAL has been at this soooooo long and it never gets better, with an H that as she points out repeatedly, doesn't give a flying F about her, and she keeps making that sacrifice for the kids. Laudable? Yes. But at some point it has to begin to affect your own health and well being.

Sorry to talk about your sitch on your sitch TAL. You know I only want what's best for you. Just seems like one of those situations where the same thing keeps getting done over and over expecting different results.

And I agree. IC is a wonderful idea. Help you sort it all out where you can then make the best decision for both you and your kids.

Last edited by Hope4us; 01/13/10 06:53 PM.
Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.