That's for sure Gypsy. Just when I think it can't get any stranger.....
After 2 1/2yrs of this, there has finally come a time where I know I was mourning a marriage to someone who doesn't, can't, won't be a partner to me.
It makes sense now why he was trying to get me to sign on the dotted line immediately in front of the court house.
Yesterday I found out my mother has been given up to 5 months to live. Minutes later, I find out from my S6, that the OW has moved into my old house, & that "he likes us both the same" because his dad said it should be that way. My 17 yr old son has transformed into someone I never imagined, posting on FB that I can go F myself when I took his drug away (interactive computer gaming.)
Through my dad's long illness, losing him along with one of my best friends, my mother's 6 months in bed due to injury & telling me he's still "boffing that woman" on my birthday, I still believed I had a chance to turn it around.
I will probably never understand someone that could treat another person this way, especially for so long a period.
I wouldn't trade what I've learned for anything though. I also wouldn't trade the wonderful people I've met here, including my friend CVA who helped me thru a difficult night.
What can you say to express your gratitude to people who help others & pay it forward like those on here.