The thought that I'm OK regardless of the outcome.
That is it exactly! And you will be! Because when you know you will be okay, no one else is responsible for your happiness - you are!
You are getting to a very healthy place. It's totally normal to still have some sad days, some triggers, but overall you sound great! You have come a long way. Congrats!
Keep up the great attitude! It will help you in every part of your life, and it is much more attractive to W.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2